Bye Felipe


Online dating offers documentary proof of men not handling women's sexual rejection gracefully. Cristen and Caroline talk about what happens when masculinity constructs and swiping left collide and why straight guys sometimes can't take 'no' for an answer.

Podcast sources:

"Ex-Harry Potter podcast host accused of harassing female writer on social media." http://www.dailydot.com/lifestyle/ben-schoen-grace-spelman-mugglecast/

"How Tinder Solved Online Dating for Women." http://nymag.com/thecut/2013/10/how-tinder-solved-online-dating-for-women.html

"Is There Any Right Way to Reject a Guy?" http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/08/mugglecast-rejection.html#

"Manning up: Men may overcompensate when their masculinity is threatened." http://www.washington.edu/news/2015/06/22/manning-up-men-may-overcompensate-when-their-masculinity-is-threatened/

"Mass Sho0tings in the U.S. are on the Rise. What Makes American Men So Dangerous?" http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2015/07/27/mass-shootings-in-the-u-s-what-makes-so-many-american-men-dangerous/

"Pain of Unrequited Love Afflicts the Rejecter, Too." http://www.nytimes.com/1993/02/09/science/pain-of-unrequited-love-afflicts-the-rejecter-too.html

"Stronger reaction to masculinity threats tied to testosterone, Stanford sociologist says." http://news.stanford.edu/news/2013/april/masculine-testosterone-response-041613.html

"The 4 rules guys should follow when they get rejected on Tinder." http://www.dailydot.com/opinion/rules-guys-should-follow-rejected-tinder/

"Tinder and the Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse." http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/2015/08/tinder-hook-up-culture-end-of-dating

"Why I Created Bye Felipe." http://msmagazine.com/blog/2014/10/31/why-i-created-bye-felipe

Academic insights:

"Manning Up: Threatened Men Compensate by Disavowing Feminine Preferences and Embracing Masculine Attributes." Cheryan, Sapna et al. Social Psychology. 2014. http://econtent.hogrefe.com/doi/abs/10.1027/1864-9335/a000239

"The Prevalence and Nature of Unrequited Love." Bringle, Robert G.; Winnick, Terri; Rydell, Robert J. Sage Open. 2013. http://sgo.sagepub.com/content/3/2/2158244013492160

"Unrequited love: On heartbreak, anger, guilt, scriptlessness, and humiliation." Baumeister, Roy F.; Wotman, Sara R.; Stillwell, Arlene M. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. 1993. http://psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1993-25463-001

"What Accounts For Men's Hostile Attitudes Toward Women? The Influence of Hegemonic Male Role Norms and Masculine Gender Role Stress." Gallagher, Kathryn E. and Parrott, Dominic J. Violence Against Women. 2011. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3143459/pdf/nihms-312199.pdf