Emotional Affairs

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When is it cheating if there's no sex or physical contact? Welcome to the murky world of emotional cheating. Cristen and Caroline confront its warning signs, hallmarks and social media minefield.

Episode Sources:

"5 major signs he's cheating on you -- emotionally, at least" http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/relationships/advice/a21442/signs-of-an-emotional-affair/

"Could you be having an emotional affair?" http://www.oprah.com/omagazine/emotional-affairs-recognizing-and-coping-with-emotional-infidelity

"12 warning signs that it's emotional infidelity -- and not 'just friendship'" http://blogs.psychcentral.com/relationships/2012/07/12-warning-signs-that-its-emotional-infidelity-and-not-just-friendship/

"42 percent of Tinder users aren't even single" http://www.wired.com/2015/05/tinder-users-not-single/

"'Back-up husbands,' 'emotional affairs' and the rise of digital infidelity" https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-intersect/wp/2014/10/03/back-up-husbands-emotional-affairs-and-the-rise-of-digital-infidelity/

"Rethinking infidelity ... a talk for anyone who has ever loved" https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved?language=en

Academic Insights:

"Effects of sex, sexual orientation, infidelity expectations, and love on distress related to emotional and sexual infidelity." Olivia Leeker and Al Carlozzi. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. Vol. 40, Iss. 1. Pages 68-91. January 2014. http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1752-0606.2012.00331.x/abstract

"Science watch: From the same planet after all." Etienne Benson. Monitor. Vol. 33, No. 9. Page 34. October 2002. http://www.apa.org/monitor/oct02/planet.aspx

"Emotional responses to sexual and emotional infidelity: Constants and differences across genders, samples and methods." John Sabini and Melanie C. Green. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin. Vol. 30, No. 11. Pages 1375-1388. November 2004. http://psp.sagepub.com/content/30/11/1375.short

"Upset over sexual versus emotional infidelity among gay, lesbian, bisexual and heterosexual adults." David A. Frederick and Melissa R. Fales. Archives of Sexual Behavior. Vol. 45, Iss. 1. Pages 175-191. January 2016. http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs10508-014-0409-9

"Using modern technology to keep in touch with back burners: An investment model analysis." Jason L. Dibble and Michelle Drouin. Computers in Human Behavior. Vol. 34. Pages 96-100. May 2014. http://opus.ipfw.edu/psych_facpubs/123/

Topics in this Podcast: relationships, sex, marriage, affairs