The Gay Best Friend

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Pop culture tells us gay men and straight women make the best of friends, but why? Cristen and Caroline dissect the sociology, culture and evolutionary psychology of these relationships to figure out whether these presumed besties are a product of nature or nurture.

Episode Sources:

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"Gay Men's Sexism and Women's Bodies"

"Why Do Gay Men Keep Touching My Boobs"

"The Myth of the Fag Hag and Dirty Secrets of the Gay Male Subculture"

"Ladies: I'm not your gay boyfriend"

"Straight Men and Their Lesbian Best Friends"

"Male Closeness: Do We Need It?"

"I Love You, Man (as a Friend)"

"A Contract for the Gay Guy/Straight Guy Friendship"

"Do Lesbians Need Rules for the Gay Girl/Straight Girl Friendship?"

Academic Insights:

"Friends with Benefits, but Without the Sex: Straight Women and Gay Men Exchange Trustworthy Mating Advice." Eric M. Russell et al. Evolutionary Psychology. 2013.,%20but%20without%20the%20sex%20Straight%20women%20and%20gay%20men%20exchange%20trustworthy%20mating%20advice.pdf

"Patterns of cross-orientation friendships in high schools." Koji Ueno. Social Science Research. 2010.

"Beyond Similarities: Cross-Gender and Cross-Orientation Best Friendship in a Sample of Sexual Minority and Heterosexual Young Adults." Roberto Baiocco et al. Sex Roles. February 2014.

"Fast friends and queer couples: Relationships between gay men and straight women in North American popular culture, 1959-2000." James L. Allen. Doctoral Dissertations Available from Proquest. January 2003.

"A Companion to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer Studies." Edited by George E. Haggerty and Molly McGarry. 2007.

Topics in this Podcast: pop culture, television, lgbt, friendship, stereotypes, gender differences